Body care (Gender-Unspecific Grooming)

Table of contents

Child pages

Skin

Tanning

Sunless tanning
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunless_tanning

Teeth

Veneers

My current habit

  • I brush my teeth twice a day: once immediately before going to bed (so, when I won't be eating anything else all night), and once approximately 12 hours later, after having eaten breakfast / lunch (so, ~12-1pm).
    • I brush my teeth for two minutes: I split my teeth into six surfaces based on the following divisions: top / bottom teeth, front / back of the teeth, and left / right side of the mouth. I count to '15' on each of those six surfaces. I got this idea from the instruction manual for the Sonicare electric toothbrush, and I like it.
    • I keep my Sonicare at home and use a different toothbrush while I'm at work.
  • I also use whitener for ~20 mins while I'm taking a shower in the morning.

Brushing

  • Advice on a toothpaste / toothbrush from a dentist I visited, specifically for helping to keep teeth white:
    • She uses vivid white Crest toothpaste
    • She recommends getting a soniccare toothbrush, that's what she uses. She thinks it cleans your teeth better.
  • Nimbus is apparently a good brand (rec'd by the dentist I went to in Palo Alto)

Flossing

Whitening

Important: You never stop needing to whiten. For a long time I thought that I would just need to get my teeth totally white and then they'd stay like that, but now I understand that the people you see with very white teeth are probably using whitener frequently to maintain the color. Here's a woman on Amazon admitting to doing this:

I've been using Nite White 22% ACP for about 7 years and suffered from post whitening sensitivity.

Source: http://www.amazon.com/Remineralization- ... D3E9ZEZFWT



Don't put too much whitening gel in the trays. I started to do this and the gel ended up seeping around the front of the teeth and into the part of the tray that's BEHIND my teeth, and then the gel was resting right up against my gums (the part of my gums adjacent to the backs of my teeth).
- Unfortunately there may not be a foolproof method of getting the dosage right; you may just need to go by trial and error.
- In my case, I pulled out my trays when my gums started to really hurt after having the trays in for only a few minutes. I then washed out my mouth and the trays and tried again with a smaller dose. The whitening gel is cheap enough that you shouldn't worry about "wasting" it, so don't feel pressure to keep the trays in if your gums hurt.

Whitening gel has a shelf-life, like food. If buy it and then don't use it for a year, it may not be as effective (or it may not work at all) once you finally open it up. I was annoyed when I was using whitening gel and not noticing any change, and I suspect this was what had happened; I had bought it a year or two before, and never ended up using it all. [Later: I think the gel WAS working, I just wasn't using enough at first and it was taking longer to see results than I was expecting it to.]


Advice on whitening from a dentist I visited:

- She uses vivid white Crest toothpaste
- She says you can do a repeat of the whitening light thing every 6 months
- She recommends doing the whitening procedure close to the teeth cleaning.
- With your initial whitening light thing you can do it 2-3 times over the course of 2-3 weeks
- She recommends getting a soniccare toothbrush, that's what she uses. She thinks it cleans your teeth better.


Here's a 1-page set of instructions that came with my laser-whitening procedure:

Sinsational Smile
"A smile so bright, it's sinful"

For best results after your Sinsational Smile teeth whitening, do the following:

- Avoid dark foods such as coffee, tea, red wine, blueberries, marinara sauce, dark sodas or any other dark food or drink. Anything that can stain your Tupperware will likely stain your teeth! AVOID DARK FOOD AND DRINKS FOR 24 HOURS!

- Use your take-home whitening pen that night. It should last you about 2 months if used one a day. Be careful not to overfill the applicator brush! Once it's saturated it should be good for 3-4 uses before having to fill it again. Use your whitening mouth tray to keep your tongue off your teeth. Remove tray after 15 minutes. Rinse tray and use again and again as needed. Do NOT rinse gel off teeth after applying pen.

- For best results have your teeth whitened with Sinsational Smile immediately after each cleaning appointment. This will help you maintain the white smile you're looking for. Results will vary from person to person. Ask your dentist about their cleaning and whitening specials that will save you money!

- If you experience any sensitivity after your Sinsational Smile whitening, this only will be temporary and can be relieved by using a one-minute oral rinse called 'Rincinol'. Ask your dentist for a sample of this oral rinse!


Three factors are responsible for stain-promoting foods and beverages: chromogens, acid and tannins.

Chromogens. Some food and drinks (like red wine) are considered aggressive stainers because of chromogens. Chromogens are intensely-pigmented compounds that stick to the teeth enamel, causing a lot of trouble when they mix and react with other stain-causing and stain-promoting factors.

Tannins. Tannins may be natural or synthetic. Ordinary black tea is rich in tannins and is even more aggressive at staining teeth than coffee, which, by the way, has lots of chromogens. Tannins promote staining because they enhance the ability of chromogens to stick to the enamel. Less aggressive stainers are white, green and herbal teas. Red wine is particularly rich in both chromogens and tannins.

Acid. Acidic foods and drinks cause stains because acid erodes and softens the enamel, creating rough patches that stain easily. Acid makes sodas and sports drinks aggressive stainers. Alcoholic beverages are also highly acidic.

Source: http://www.santacruzdentist.com/2013/06 ... an-others/

Going to the dentist

  • http://www.bogleheads.org/forum/viewtop ... 2&start=50
    • wesleymouch:

      The big scam is that you have to see a dentist in order to use the services of a dental hygenist. The fact is that it does not take much to be a general dentist. Its like being a pediatrician. You would be better off getting your teeth cleaned by a hygenist and seeing a dentist only when you have a problem. Dentists get laws passed to prevent hygenists from working independently. They have the hygenist do the work then mark up their services.

      stlrick:

      1. You can't count on referrals from periodontists, orthodontists, etc. They get their referrals from general dentists, and some may recommend just to return the favor.

      2. There is no way a patient can judge, regardless of the number of years they have seen their dentist.

      3. The absolutely best way to find a good dentist is to find a dentist that other dentists send their families to. 

      4. Second best, find a dentist in private practice who teaches part-time, usually one day per week, as clinical faculty at the local dental school. 

      5. If you are going to use students, use students in the General Practice Residency of a hospital, not dental students studying for their DMD or DDS (there is, by the way, absolutely no difference between these degrees).

Hair

  • You need to learn what to tell your barber when you go for a haircut. They should be given specific instructions, with pictures for reference.
  • Look for a particular barber who you think does a good job, and request that barber the next time you go in. If you just use any barber, the odds are that you'll be left unhappy with the results.
  • Get your hair cut every two weeks.
  • You'll learn a lot by going to different barbers.
    • One barber I went to was Vietnamese, she was no-nonsense, used a buzzer the whole time, I was in and out in 10-15 minutes.
    • Another one was a white guy in his 50s or 60s, he took a while, did a typical "Regular" haircut (which the other barbers didn't seem to know about), had some mistakes.
    • Another one was a black guy in his 30s at a barbershop tailored to African-style hair, he took by far the longest

Scent

General thoughts

  • 2016.09.11 - I had an interesting experience that I thought was worth noting: I've been staying in a hotel room for the past two days. When I first entered it I remember finding it had an unpleasant smell of cigarettes. Now that I've stayed here for about two days, I stepped out into the hallway and said "Ugh, I hate the way the hallway smells", and it occurred to me that I don't even notice the smell of the room anymore; I've become desensitized to it. And that in turn brought to my attention that the same thing can happen with body odors: the odors may grow at the-same-or-slower rate as your tendency to get desensitized to such odors, which is why it would be difficult to gauge whether you smell bad just from introspection / your own feeling.

Showers

  • Unfortunately it can be difficult to tell just how badly you need a shower.
  • Your best bet is to shower daily if you've walked for more than ~20 minutes straight that day, or if you plan to work out.
  • One thing to watch out for: if you haven't taken a shower in a day and then work out, once you start sweating you may smell much worse than if you had showered before you started working out.
    • I made this mistake once while working out with Dev: I had showered the previous day and hadn't done any kind of exercise, but once we started working out I started to smell really bad.
    • Later that week I had a free Pilates session where I hadn't showered since the previous day, and I made sure to avoid the same mistake by showering before the session. I think it ended up saving me from making a bad impression, and the woman ended up offering to forward my resume to her boyfriend! She probably wouldn't have done that if I smelled terrible.

Bad breath

Perfume / Cologne

  • I personally prefer to not wear this stuff, and from memory I think I prefer it when others don't as well, but...
  • ...I think wearing a sensible amount of a refined-smelling perfume can make a person seem better-groomed, especially if it sets that person apart from those around him/her.
  • And so even though I think the scent may be a neutral or slight net negative just on its own, I think the value it can confer by making a person seem well-groomed can make it a good idea to wear the perfume. This was not something that occurred to me for many years. To say it again: you can agree that the smell is distracting and not as pleasant as just using deoderant and nice-smelling shampoo/soap, you can agree to all that, and STILL have it be a good idea to wear perfume, simply because it can have the psychological effect on others of having them think, 'Oh, this person puts extra time into grooming themselves.'
  • After spending a few hours reading about it, it looks like you should just buy whatever you'd like to smell like, and don't worry about whether it was labelled as 'for men' or 'for women'. Originally (back in the 1700s) everybody would wear the same stuff.
  • The one concern I could imagine is that if you're wearing a common perfume, you may not want your significant other coming across that same scent when they're around people of their own gender. So, for example, if you're a guy, you might not want your girlfriend bumping into women (and ONLY women) who are using the same perfume as you.

Getting it cheap

  • Search 'perfume studio' on Amazon. They also have a website: http://www.perfume-studio.com/
    • You'll need to buy 'roller bottles' to roll the oil onto your skin.
    • Someone on an Amazon review rec'd AromaGlide rollers by a company called 'Young Living': "These rollers are smaller than and don't roll out as much oil as do the AromaGlide rollers by Young Living."

How to use it

  • Be very careful to not put too much on. I've had it happen where I'll step outside, put two spritzes on my wrist (the recommended maximum for your whole body), didn't notice a strong smell, and so did two more on my neck, then stepped inside and realized I had made a horrible mistake, and rushed to the bathroom to try to wash it off. So be careful!



Great info: HowStuffWorks - What's the difference between cologne, eau de parfum and perfume?
http://lifestyle.howstuffworks.com/styl ... erfume.htm

What all colognes, true or not, have in common is their concentration of essential oils. Eau de cologne is a weak formulation, typically containing anywhere from 2 to 5 percent essential oils in a base of mostly alcohol but also water, which characterizes most fragrances. The low concentration results in several qualities that distinguish cologne from other forms of scent. First, the cost per ounce is one of the lowest, and the scent only lasts for an hour or two. Second, it's the scent's top notes (the first ones you smell after application) that are dominant. Because cologne fades quickly, other scent components of the recipe tend to fall away, resulting in a product that may smell markedly different from other versions of the same fragrance. (See What does dry-down mean? to learn about fragrance notes.)

The formulation known as eau de toilette is close to cologne on the concentration scale, containing approximately 5 to 10 percent fragrance oils. Some perfume houses use the terms interchangeably, along with "eau fraîche" (or "fresh water"), to describe a low-concentration product. Regardless of the name, it's a formulation that allows the user to apply more, and more often, without being over-scented.

More concentrated than eau de cologne and eau de toilette, eau de parfum ranges from about 10 to 15 percent essential oils. The result is a fragrance that lasts a lot longer than cologne, up to five hours, so it requires less-frequent application (and women on the go rejoice). It's not so strong, however, that it needs to be applied as drops; eau de parfum is still light enough to be sold as a purse-worthy, high-volume spray (again, women on the go rejoice). Eau de parfum is more expensive than eau de cologne and eau de toilette, so it's a less popular variety. Since it lasts so much longer, though, and can be applied in smaller doses, many people find it to be an affordable formulation.

And then there's perfume, which few would ever call affordable. It's the original, the elite, the pure. The highest-concentration scent format, perfume (also called parfum, parfum extrait or perfume extract) has traditionally scented the wealthy. It's the purest of the fragrance recipes, with the highest concentration of expensive essential oils and the least amount of alcohol and water. In some cases, it may contain no water at all.
Historically, perfume is the original scent, the base from which all other varieties are diluted. Perfume concentrations range from 15 percent all the way up to 40 percent, with an industry average of about 25 percent. Unlike eau de parfum and eau de cologne, which may be applied liberally and practically anywhere, perfume is meant to be applied in tiny amounts using a dropper, and scenting only the pulse points, including the insides of wrists and elbows, the throat, behind the ears and between the breasts. At these points, the skin is warmest, allowing for the greatest fragrance release. Of all scent varieties, perfume lasts the longest, up to seven hours. Its concentration also provides for the greatest depth of scent, with top, middle and base notes all having ample time to develop. It also offers some price justification: Perfume simply has more of the good stuff.

Sources
"Eau de Cologne: Fragrant Water." Cologne Tourism. (Aug. 6, 2012) http://www.cologne-tourism.com/city-exp ... water.html
FAQs. FragranceNet. (Aug. 6, 2012) http://www.fragrancenet.com/f/net/faqs.html
"Fragrance Descriptions." Fragrance Café. (Aug. 6, 2012)http://fragrancecafe.com/fcfragranceterms.html
"General Perfume Information." The Perfumed Court. (Aug. 6, 2012)http://theperfumedcourt.com/perfume_info.aspx
"Perfume or eau de toilette? What's the difference?" Hello! Magazine. June 2, 2010. (Aug. 6, 2012) http://www.hellomagazine.com/healthandb ... ategories/
Vosnaki, Elena. "Myth Busting: What Fragrance Concentration Really Means." Fragrance Shrine. June 15, 2011. (Aug. 6, 2012) http://perfumeshrine.blogspot.com/2011/ ... rance.html




eBay - Men’s Fragrance Buying Guide
http://www.ebay.com/gds/Men-s-Fragrance ... 583/g.html