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How to start and run a fraternity
Table of contents
Child pages
Books of interest
- Amazon: The Fraternity Leader: The Complete Guide to Improving Your Chapter
- Amazon: The Chapter President: Preparing Sorority and Fraternity Leaders for the Unexpected
- Amazon: Getting Great in the Door: The Ultimate Guide for Fraternity Recruitment
- Amazon: How to Join a Fraternity
- Amazon: Hazing 101: How We Did It and Why We Did It
- Amazon: Wrongs of Passage: Fraternities, Sororities, Hazing, and Binge Drinking
Links of interest
- The Fraternity Advisor - How to Start a Fraternity
- GreekChat - How to start a frat
I was a colonizing member of my chapter. We're part of an international GLO. Here's what we had to do.
Get together 30+ of your campus's leaders and somehow get them to become friends/brothers before they butt heads so much that they start killing eachother.
Establish a constitution and bylaws that everyone can agree on.
Elect an executive board and establish committees.
Figure out what that entire brotherhood thing is all about.
Really figure out what brotherhood is all about.
Make a budget and figure out dues. Fight over dues and budget. Make a new one.
Realize that you had brotherhood wrong.
Figure brotherhood out again.
Devote more time to your burgeoening fraternity than you do to schoolwork and your other organizations combined all the while maintaining your chapter's, your national's and your campus' academic standards.
Study for your GLO's exam (ours was freakin' hard).
Suddenly develop an understanding of brotherhood.
Recruit. A lot.
Establish your presence on campus.
Come to the sudden realization that every single one of these guys will be at your wedding and you, even if you have to fly back early from vacationing in Guam in order to attend a brother's wedding in the snowiest place in Canada, will be at every single one of theirs.
Fight with the administration (a lot. My campus' administration has been becoming infamous for their efforts to quash the fraternities).
Plan events. Lots of events. Get people to come out to your events.
Work on getting your charter (our manual on chartering is freakishly long and is filled with detailed checklists of stuff to have done).
Continue studying for your GLO's exam.
Truly become a brother.
Ritual.
Chartering.
Finding a way to avoid the post chartering slump (your chances of failing are highest immediately after chartering).
Still finding yourself devoting more time to your GLO than to school or other organizations.
It's not easy stuff. Don't try to start a new chapter unless you are willing to put in the work and are willing to risk failure. More importantly, understand that the chapter you attempt to start will most likely not succeed unless it somehow fulfills a need on your campus. A clone of Delta Sigma Phi or Sigma Phi Epsilon simply won't succeed. Each fraternity had similarities, sure, but the Theta Chi chapter at my campus is in no way my fraternity nor is mine Theta Chi. Especially at a school with a small Greek population, starting a clone will only cause one of the organizations to suffer. Given that yours would be the newer and weaker one, you can imagine which organization would be more likely to survive.
The North-American Interfraternity Conference - Member Fraternities
Creation stories
- Founding of Omega Xi.pdf
- This is a very interesting read.
- Summary:
- The author and ~18 other guys were living on the same floor for one year and then were able to somehow continue that for a second year.
- They hosted two parties that got rave reviews, and someone said "This is so great up here, you guys are like your own independent fraternity!"
- The author was interested in the perks involved in being a frat: intramural teams, social events, and most of all: sorority girls.
- In the spring of his sophomore year he put posters all over campus inviting guys to a meeting to discuss the idea.
- The only guys who showed up were the ones living on the floor (except for two).
- He gave a 20-minute speech about the idea.
- The only response was: "What you described sounds pretty good, but without a frat house it's just a club, and a club is lame. Find us a house and then you might have something."
- Most of the article then describes the problems he had getting a house.
- It became the third-largest fraternity at his University and lasted for ten years, it was "courted heavily by many national fraternities".
- "Without a backer or mature alumni group, it did not survive."
The idea of Kappa Kappa Gamma was conceived in a conversation between two college women, Mary Louise Bennett and Hannah Jeannette Boyd, on a wooden bridge over a stream on the Monmouth College campus in the late 1860s.[4] Though the coeducational college was considered progressive at the time, the women were dissatisfied with the fact that while men enjoyed membership in fraternities, women had few equivalent organizations for companionship, support, and advancement, and were instead limited to literary societies. Bennett and Boyd began to seek "the choicest spirits among the girls, not only for literary work, but also for social development",[4] beginning with their friend Mary Moore Stewart. Stewart, Boyd, and Bennett met around 1869 in the Amateurs des Belles Lettres Hall, a literary society of which the women were active members when they first decided to form a new society.[5] Soon after, they recruited three additional women, Anna Elizabeth Willits, Martha Louisa Stevenson, and Susan Burley Walker, to join in founding the fraternity.
The six founders met at the home of Anna Willits to lay the groundwork for the formation of the first chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma, later known as the Alpha Chapter. It was there that they chose the golden key as their badge and prepared to make their official debut by ordering their badges from Lou Bennett's family jeweler. A formal charter was also drawn up by Minnie Stewart's father, who was an attorney in the state of Illinois.
The six founders declared their intention to organize as a women's fraternity when on October 13, 1870, they marched into the most public venue on Monmouth campus, the chapel, wearing their golden key badges in their hair. This day is nationally recognized by the fraternity as "Founders Day".
In 1871, the young fraternity expanded by chartering their Beta Chapter at nearby St. Mary's Seminary. (NW: So this was just a few months after starting the Alpha chapter.) The next year, the fraternity expanded again to Gamma Chapter at Smithson College and Delta Chapter at Indiana University. Though the Beta and Gamma chapters failed to survive more than a few years, the Delta chapter became the fraternity's oldest continuously active chapter (Alpha was closed in 1874 but later re-established) and contributed a great deal to the organization of the fraternity in its early years.
Since 1870, Kappa has continued to expand and has chartered 160 chapters, 138 of which are active today.