Your behavior (Men's Grooming)

• 1939.03.18 - New Yorker - The Secret Life of Walter Mitty

  • In the fantasies, Walter displays these characteristics:

    • He always knows what to do / how to solve a problem.

    • He's calm about problems / danger.

    • He's giving orders / telling others what to do.

    • He's interacting with high-status individuals.

      • He's a surgeon operating on a millionaire.

  • In 'reality', he displays these characteristics:

    • He's told by others that he isn't doing things correctly.

      • His wife tells him he's driving too fast.

      • His wife tells him he's 'tensed up'.

    • He's forgetful.

    • He makes mistakes.

Be confident

• 2016.05.20 - NYT - A Facebook Algorithm Renews a College Crush

  • The annoying thing about this story is that this is exactly the kind of behavior that women seem to complain about.